As I coach women in business, they talk about the annoying customers who end up being nothing but an energy drain. Or, they talk about a spouse, friend or family member who is hard to get along with, or isn't on the same page as them.
My friends, what we resist persists.
You are not going to change a person. Accept them for who they are and send them loving light. Get quiet, clear your mind, and send them beautiful healing light from the heart. As well, visualize the ideal experience you would love to have with them. Get into the feeling of how it would feel to be in that new relationship with them. And then, watch for the difference in them. The more you focus on it, the sooner it will appear.
Sending you loving light,
There are women I have coached who are in troubled relationships.
It may be that the women in invested in the man but he is aloof. Says he's interested but is subtly unavailable. Something else always seems to come up that is more important.
Or, perhaps the relationship is on rocky ground. The moods are up and down.
What I suggest to have more consistent love in your life is to focus on something or someone that feels good. Maybe it is a little one you do love, maybe it is your pet. Something that makes you feel good. Go to that place and allow the feeling to embrace you. Focus on it and feel it for as long as you can.
Whenever you are feeling neglected, unloved, switch up the feeling to a time when you felt loved or felt good.
The more you focus on the positive feeling, the more you are going to experience the same positive feeling coming back to you.
The key to this is being open to where the love feeling is coming from. Don't be focused on one specific person showing you the love. Perhaps this isn't the ideal person for you. Be open to receiving the love and listen to your intuition. If your intuition speaks to you, follow it.
Long before I knew anything about the Law of Attraction, I was manifesting things in my life.
-When I was single, I had met every jerk there was. I became very frustrated and created a list of what I wanted in a man and a relationship. In not too long, Mr Right came knocking on my door. And my intuition spoke to me and told me to give this man a chance. It was the best decision I have ever made.
-There was one time when I was selling a vehicle. All I did was put a 'for sale' sign in the car. Someone came knocking on my door, asked to take it for a test drive and offered me more than I had planned to ask for it.
-I have been in a couple of accidents that were no fault. In my first one, it was time to settle with the insurance company. Everyone I knew felt that the most I would receive from the insurance company was around $2,000. I felt with every bone in my body that the very least I should be paid was $15,000 for all I had been through. We met with the insurance adjuster to settle and their first offer to me was $15,000! I almost fell off my chair. And oh yes, I took their offer.
-When I began learning about the Law of Attraction, I set a goal to pay my charge cards in full within four months. At the end of that four months, I had unexpectedly received money and paid my charge cards in full.
When you learn to focus your energies to a positive outcome, you can experience wonderful outcomes and live a life in harmony instead of struggling to meet your goals.
Using intuition in your business may be something new to you but, as women, we are all saying we have a sixth sense when we are talking about our children.
Have you ever had a gut feeling about a prospect or a contact in your business? Or a hunch about them?
These situations are examples of us automatically using our intuition without consciously stopping to concentrate on it.
As we stop to listen to what our gut or our intuition is telling us, we start making decisions that are true to us and who we are.
For me, my intuition has come naturally and has been very powerful.
There was one instance where I was in an audience at a theatre. There was a door prize draw for a trip to Hawaii. We all had a lottery ticket. The draw was made and they started to call the ticket number. Suddenly, I knew with every bone in my body that it was my ticket so I called my number to them. Their reply 'Whoever just said that, come on down, it's your ticket.'
That is what happens for me. I get a 'knowing' when my intuition is speaking to me.
The best way to learn to follow your intuition is to just stop and listen and feel what feels good to you. If something doesn't feel good, it isn't right for you.
I invite you to share with me instances where you have followed your intuition in making a decision.